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Sheldon H.'s avatar

“My 7th grade schoolmates would call me a fag.  “Progressives” would now call me “queer.” Because I don’t have gender dysphoria, it is pretty simple. I am a man and always will be a man. I am Tom. I always was Tom.”

I can relate to this more than I would like to admit in a public forum.

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Frederick R Prete's avatar

This is both well-written and true. We all have fluid and evolving self-perceptions that are informed by both our biology and the conditions in which we develop.

https://everythingisbiology.substack.com/p/there-is-biological-evidence-for

These changing perceptions do not change our sex. Like the author, many men (and women) wish they were more readily accepted when they assume nontraditional roles. Unfortunately, to be that accepting of others requires thoughtfulness, patience, and the ability to think critically. These characteristics are currently in short supply.

As a fellow psychologist, I appreciated this essay very much. Thank you.

Sincerely, Frederick

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