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Sarah's avatar

The example of the man in the changing room with girls seems a perfect example of the ridiculousness that ensues with a strict adherence to a hierarchy of oppression. And in this hierarchy a transwoman outranks girl children. It doesn't matter if the children are extremely uncomfortable (as they should be, if they begin to feel comfortable being around adult men who are strangers and naked, that is not good, it's bad). If the transwoman will feel hurt by being banned from a girl's locker room then that is the priority. Adults need to put their foot down. And yes, I think it is particularly important for men to have a strong voice in these types of instances, that they can and will protect girls when needed.

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Susan Scheid's avatar

Kate and Alejandra, a terrific, jam-packed round-up as always, thank you so much. I watched My Shadow Is Pink with interest. While I would love to hear from parents in the thick of this about their views, my preliminary thought is that while, in the absence of current context, the video could be seen as simply supporting different ways for children to express themselves, unfortunately, in the current environment, I am concerned that its use is likely to be quite problematic. Many schools right now can be fairly seen as pipelines for fostering a belief that a child can be born in the wrong body and that the “fix” for that is medicalization. My Shadow Is Pink can easily fall right in line with that: boy likes pink, teacher says maybe you’re really a girl, boy then socially transitions, and on it goes. Until and unless we can be confident that teachers will not use the video in service of those ends, I am uncomfortable with using it as a teaching tool. I would instead encourage, for example, use of books like Rachel Rooney’s My Body Is Me, and a whole host of other books/videos that don’t wade into these dangerous waters. (Michael Rosen is another terrific children’s author. Here, from him, is “We’re Going on a Bear Hunt”: https://youtu.be/0gyI6ykDwds).

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