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As a trans widow, I've been uncomfortable here plenty of times! I especially objected to a woman who ideates a male persona, Buck Angel, being hosted here with no references about her porn performances, porn production work and sex toy/lube business that takes advantage of mixed up teen girls. Buck the celestial appeared on the Howard Stern show rocking on a pony-sized dildo after disrobing from the waist down, with Howard and his 2 staffers all agog, watching. So if an AGP male is so "triggered" I have absolutely not a shred of sympathy. Especially after collecting the data regarding what goes on behind closed doors when a woman discovers she's in a marriage to the AGP whether or not he's honest about his interests. Perhaps he's in the 2/3 of men, according to my data on 60 trans widows, who don't sexually assault their wives, or in the half who don't defame us publicly after the divorce. I'm thrilled that Vaishnavi Sundar's documentary profiling 20 or so trans widows is about to appear at Lime Soda Films channel. While AGP dude has many, many advocacy organizations to rely on for support, trans widows have me, Tinsel Angel at transwidowsvoices.org and let's see . . . I think that's it. We have a couple of small FB groups where we have to screen the AGP husbands who cyberspy out. For once I'm not linking a clip from my channel, Trans Widow Ute Heggen--here's Lime Soda Films trailer about getting support. You'll notice most have to be depicted through animation, as we are still afraid of our ex-husbands and their allies:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQOvlxi4nbE

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