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Laura Wiley Haynes's avatar

I'd add

"We recognize, too, that this spike in gender-distressed youth is taking place alongside spiking child mental health problems of all kinds. We must consider what has changed for children to prompt so much unhappiness to arise in recent years. Evaluative, open-ended mental health care must never be withheld from any child distressed enough to contemplate self harm."

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Dr Brady's avatar

good letter - the comment about linking it to the larger mental health problems, post lockdown is a good one. We need a coordianted letter campaign to these irresponsible organizations. Hell, I don't know what we need.

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Laura Wiley Haynes's avatar

If even one Democratic governor did this, it would make the results impossible to ignore.

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dog mom's avatar

Lol, your headline scared me! I thought "NOW what?" lolol! Love it. Wish it was real.

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Michele a/k/a Nana's avatar

Thank you, Lisa! Your research will benefit not only your faithful readers (like me!), but the people we will share with. I hope that the more we share, the more parents will start speaking up! As the mother of a daughter who has been on this trans brainwashing journey, I am a witness that we must never medically transition a child. Never ever no matter what society’s opinion is. It is not anyone’s right to mutilate these young bodies. It is the individual’s right when they become adults. Not sooner. My personal opinion is that it never become an option. My hope is that every individual can identify as their choice of gender without being shunned, bullied or surgically changed. We are all unique. We all deserve to be happy.

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Lisa's avatar

The first two sentences of the last paragraph SAY IT ALL. How in the world have we gotten so far from that common sense, "Free to Be...You and Me" enlightenment????

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Karen's avatar

I think reaching the medical community and doctors causing harm is vital but I think reaching regular people is even more important. As someone who lives and works among the “woke” I can tell you that most people have no idea what’s really going on out there, whether it’s surgeries on minors, men in drag competing (and winning) against women in sports (or beauty contests for that matter), university scientists and teachers being told not to teach about a sex binary, men in women’s prisons... I believe that the average person does not know these things are happening and the extent to which gender ideology has pervaded our society and the havoc it is wreaking. And if they do know they are too scared to speak against it.

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Jolene's avatar

If only..... thank you for allowing us to dream Lisa!

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Lisa Selin Davis's avatar

Absolutely fantastic edits, thank you. You're right that this is written as if these people have gone through the same revelations as I have, not as if it's trying to reach people who accept certain presumptions as truth. Please feel free to send suggestions any time.

Also: maybe I should try to write a letter that people really can send to docs and therapists...

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Jolene's avatar

Please!! And to school boards

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Why not send this one to representatives? It's quite constructive.

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Lisa Selin Davis's avatar

It's your idea! I thought I saw a comment on it but I think you deleted it. But I like it. Send me any suggestions (you can write to me privately if you prefer), anything you'd particularly like to be included.

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Lisa Selin Davis's avatar

Can you send me an email?

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The paper by Littman has not been disproven. The one by Turban that you reference seems to have made up a definition of ROGD and then tried to counteract it. It is not actually even clear in his paper whether the people asked about their sex replied with their gender or sex!

Littman also buttressed her work with a study in 2021 about detransitioners, first hand accounts. There is no reason to avoid talking about it even though people keep attacking it (apparently without even knowing what it contains!). The rise is quoted in several countries as one of the main reasons to be even more cautious (French National Academy of Medicine, Sweden, UK Cass Review).

It's weird about the schools, the kids often think they are being subject to abuse if they aren't given drugs/social transition/whatever on demand. And the schools think it is lifesaving. Schools should not be making major decisions about a kid's future without involving the parents. And social transition is a big decision.

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Lisa Selin Davis's avatar

Great idea!

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You're on a roll!

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There's also a training program by O'Malley and I think Ayad and I think one in the UK, which is going to have to ramp up anyhow!

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